I am grateful for two truths in my life:
- Kids seem to like me.
- My friends are Good People.
The first is a plus because I believe children are skilled at detecting phoniness, and if they enjoy having you around - even (or especially) when the promise of gifts is nil - then that bodes quite well for you.
The second occurs to me after virtually every outing with friends. Knowing those you spend your free time with are all folks who
- would never cheat you
- would have your back in a fight and
- generally aren't shitty people
is not only reassuring, but also reflects on the kind of person you yourself must be.
So cheers to that. Carry on.